Are you the child of a narcissist? Do you suffer from post-traumatic stress from narcissistic abuse? Do you still seek your narcissistic parent’s approval? Are you the narcissistic supply?
Narcissistic mothers impact the lives of their sons and daughters in innumerable ways. Children are innocent and need to FEEL like it is acceptable to need their mothers, nurturing, acceptance and validation. When mothers are narcissistic they fail to connect to their children in a way that allows for the child to feel seen. When children do not feel seen, they do not learn how to see themselves. They do not know how to look within because the one they loved and trusted has taught them that their child is not worth being seen.
Children of narcissists absorb the energies of their mothers. If a mother is unable to have empathy for the child, the child will seek to please the mother, in hopes of gaining the much needed psychological validation required to mature emotionally in a healthy way. As adults, these children attract narcissistic others. Like attracting like, the childhood dynamic is repeated in adult hood below the veil of consciousness.
This video was created to help you learn the skills you need to take your personal power back, by modeling how to tune into the power of NOW.
If you suffer from complex PTSD or any form of post-traumatic stress,
there is no need to worry about the diagnosis because it is appropriate for the brain to fear the types of events that caused you harm when you felt in fear of being harmed, and you were powerless.
Learning to become the observer of PTSD symptoms will help relieve some of the anxiety and tension you may be experiencing because you present with some PTSD symptoms.
It’s Not You–It’s Your Programming
Children of narcissistic parents, who are now suffering from codependency symptoms, may be struggling to learn how to love themselves after narcissistic abuse. Narcissists tend to attract people pleasers or codependent personalities. Because codependents are eager to please, because they seek outside validation, they are easy targets for narcissistic lovers, and friends.
It is not easy to learn how to love yourself after narcissistic abuse, but with the right codependency recovery tools, it is possible. It is even possible to find love after codependency.
Lisa A. Romano is a Certified Life Coach, bestselling author, and mentor. She is also the creator of the expert praised 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program.
Her books are;
The Road Back To Me
My Road Beyond The Codependent Divorce
Codependent Now What? It’s Not You-It’s Your Programming
Loving the Self Affirmations 1 & 2
Quantum Tools To Help You Heal Your Life Now
To learn more about Lisa A. Romano please visit https://www.lisaaromano.com
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