My name is Xanthe Wyse. Diagnosed bipolar 1 disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder.
Shaking in this video as fight/flight activated with PTSD. I have been monitored and harrassed for over 6 years. A former friend and ex-employee turns up when I am too close to revealing what really happened.
I am absolutely blown away by the lies that have been spun by my ex and his wife and their friends (my former friends).
I filmed this to read a bit out plus could see how affected (sorry camera not set up at ideal angle). These comments are currently on the video reading out a letter from a lawyer.
Just after reading this, also got attacked my ex-sister-in-law, who I had practically nothing to do with past 15 years after she left abusive messages on my phone.
Both used DARVO – deny, attack, reverse victim and abuser. I was accused of doing what my ex did and other things were fabricated. Both also used my former name (changed with the trauma that they denied).
My goal isn’t revenge to my ex. I don’t even name him. My intentions are to show what PTSD and bipolar are like. And in this case, showing the effects of how others will try cover for abuse by attacking and lying.
I was called a liar in a very vulnerable state – distressed enough to have a breakdown and end up in hospital for 2 months. Still get called a liar. I will not be a scapegoat for someone else’s abuse.
I just heard the term ‘flying monkey’ which is someone who believes the lies of abusers (narcissists, sociopaths) and does their smear campaigns for them. That’s what this former ‘friend’ does – has done for the past 6 years.