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Couples Therapy With A Narcissist, What You Need To Know

In today’s video we explore the topic of going to couples therapy with a narcissist, and some things that you will need to consider first. Jill Wise, otherwise known as The Enlightened Target, is a life long survivor of narcissistic abuse. She was raised by a malignant narcissist and married to a malignant narcissist, she… Read More »

Lesson to Learn from The Gabby Petito Case

Jill Wise, otherwise known as The Enlightened Target, is a life long survivor of narcissistic abuse. She was raised by a malignant narcissist and married to a malignant narcissist, she has endured years of parental alienation, has repeatedly been targeted by narcissists throughout her life. She has an intimate understanding of all aspects of narcissistic… Read More »

Top 11 Things to NEVER Do With A Narcissist

In today’s video Jill shares with her her top 11 things that you should never do with a narcissist. If you have a narcissist in your life, then today’s video is for you. Jill Wise, otherwise known as The Enlightened Target, is a life long survivor of narcissistic abuse. She was raised by a malignant… Read More »

Top 5 Reasons That Narcissists Reject Us Sexually

In today’s video Jill explains why Narcissists withhold love and affection and reject us sexually. If this has happened to you, and left you confused and hurt, then today’s video is for you. Jill Wise, otherwise known as The Enlightened Target, is a life long survivor of narcissistic abuse. She was raised by a malignant… Read More »

How and Why Do Narcissists Move Onto New Sources of Supply So Quickly

In today’s video Jill address the question of how and why narcissists are able to move onto new sources of narcissistic supply so quickly, and we are not. Jill Wise, otherwise known as The Enlightened Target, is a life long survivor of narcissistic abuse. She was raised by a malignant narcissist and married to a… Read More »

What Is Learned Helplessness

It today’s video Jill is talking all about a condition called Learned Helplessness, and explaining why so many victims of long term narcissistic abuse suffer with this. Jill Wise, otherwise known as The Enlightened Target, is a life long survivor of narcissistic abuse. She was raised by a malignant narcissist and married to a malignant… Read More »

This Is Why You Cannot Stop Thinking About The Narcissist

In today’s video Jill talks about why it’s so difficult to stop thinking about the Narcissist after the break up. If you are struggling with ruminating thoughts about the narcissist, then today’s video is for you. Jill Wise, otherwise known as The Enlightened Target, is a life long survivor of narcissistic abuse. She was raised… Read More »

Am I the Narcissist? How to Determine if you are a Narcissist

In today’s video Jill explores the question that we all ask at one time or another, am I a Narcissist? If you have asked yourself this question, then today’s video is for you. Jill gives you her top 5 ways to determine if you are, or are not a Narcissist. Jill Wise, otherwise known as… Read More »

Top 5 Signs It’s Time to Leave the Narcissist

In today’s video Jill gives you her Top 5 Signs that it’s time to leave the relationship with the narcissist. Jill Wise, otherwise known as The Enlightened Target, is a life long survivor of narcissistic abuse. She was raised by a malignant narcissist and married to a malignant narcissist, she has endured years of parental… Read More »